Transform Your Relationship in Two Days

The Art & Science of Love

Upcoming workshops: March 6-7, August 21-22, and November 20-21 in Cupertino, CA

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Private Couple Retreat Days

One- or two-day customized retreat for one couple with LeMel Firestone-Palerm, MFT, LPCC, CGT based on an evaluation of your personal needs, conflict management and making your relationship flourish.

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Elevate Your Relationship

The Art & Science of Love 2

Upcoming workshop: December 11-12 in Cupertino, CA.

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In-Office Couples Counseling

A 3-session assessment process to determine individualized couples counseling plan to get your relationship back on track. Sessions are usually held on a weekly basis.

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Prepare Your Relationship

Bringing Baby Home

Upcoming workshops: April 24-25 and October 9-10 in Cupertino, CA

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"LeMel is the consummate professional. Caring, clear and effective. Thank you!"
— Randall
Sacramento, CA
Art & Science of Love Testimonial
“I went because my wife wanted to go, but I'm so glad we went - it was worth it!”
— Anonymous Workshop Participant
Art & Science of Love Testimonial
"The workshop helped us discuss & resolve issues that we previously struggled with. We were able to talk about the problems in a more focused, more productive way. Thanks so much for giving us tools, which we will use in the future when faced with conflict."
— Susan Mah
Hayward, CA
Art & Science of Love 2 Testimonial
"I gained a greater awareness of how my behavior affected my husband's; I gained new insights about how to go about discussing difficult topics, and I gained skills to help tackle re-occurring sensitivities which tend to create distance within our relationship."
— Deanna
Sacramento, CA
Art & Science of Love Testimonial
“We are a strong couple, but this workshop has prepared us with tools to go the distance - how to handle disagreements, how to recover from regrettable incidents, and so much more!”
— Anonymous Workshop Participant
Couples Counseling Testimonial
“Very helpful in improving relationship communication and positive outlook, in a nice and safe environment. I would highly recommend to anyone wanting to improve relationships.”
— A.J.
Fremont, CA
Art & Science of Love Testimonial
"We found the workshop very approachable. No one should have any qualms regarding attending."
— Stacey N.
Sunnyvale, CA
Art & Science of Love Testimonial
“We have been gridlocked on an issue for a couple years. We just talk in circles. Today, through the workshop, we had a break through in understanding and categorizing it so much differently. We had never looked at it from this perspective and understood the underlying dream and childhood connections before. Fascinating and incredibly helpful!”
— Anonymous Workshop Participant
Art & Science of Love 2 Testimonial
"The opportunities to practice were invaluable, as was the coaching along the way."
— Anonymous Workshop Participant
Sacramento, CA
Art & Science of Love Testimonial
“The exercises helped us identify where we wanted to improve and gave us a clear path to do it.”
— Anonymous Workshop Participant
Art & Science of Love Testimonial
"Thank you to the wonderful intro to ASL. We reaped great insight into ourselves & our relationship. We look forward to continuing the exercises and growth."
— Anonymous Workshop Participant
West Texas
Art & Science of Love Testimonial
"LeMel is an excellent facilitator of Dr. Gottman's program. She has an experienced approach and is deeply knowledgeable about the concepts. Our relationship is better off today for it. Thank you!"
— Anonymous Workshop Participant
San Francisco, CA

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LeMel Firestone-Palerm, LMFT, LPCC, CGT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist MFC 42162
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor LPC 1534
Certified Gottman Therapist